From The Blog: How to Navigate the Holiday Season When A Loved One is Receiving Care
The holiday season is a time for joy, love, and togetherness, but when a loved one is receiving care, the planning process can feel overwhelming. Remember, traditions naturally evolve, and it’s essential to be patient with both yourself and the situation.
It’s natural to experience stress, guilt, and grief, but with a thoughtful approach, you can create meaningful celebrations without compromising your loved one’s well-being. Below we’ve outlined some of the ways that families keep their loved ones who are in care involved throughout the holiday season.
Take an Active Role in their Celebrations
Remember to maintain an active role in your loved one’s life during the holidays. Start by talking to the facility about how you can participate in their festivities. From decorating and card-writing to bringing gifts or treats (if allowed), your involvement adds a personal touch to the festivities for your loved one. Consider hosting a craft or activity to engage your loved one and others in the care facility.
Plan Ahead for Get-Togethers
If you’re contemplating bringing your loved one home for the holidays, be mindful that plans can change last minute. If your loved one doesn’t have Alzheimer’s or dementia, and it’s feasible to transport them home, have a conversation about their preferences. Consider potential challenges, such as
- Transportation
- Additional Mobility Assistance
- Medication Needs
- Dietary Restrictions
For those with dementia or cognitive impairments, removing them from a familiar environment may be disorienting. Talk to the facility’s staff to decide what would be best. A small celebration within the facility can be a wonderful option.
Discuss dining arrangements or bringing food with the staff ahead of time to ensure a seamless experience. If you’re unable to host a large get-together, plan for virtual visits.
To ease any concerns, especially those of children or individuals who haven’t seen the resident in a long time, provide information about your loved one’s needs and behaviors ahead of time. This proactive approach ensures that everyone is aware of what to expect and can contribute to a smoother visit.
Remember to Take Care of Yourself, Too
Finally, while the holidays are about spreading joy and love, it’s important not to overlook your well-being. If you find yourself struggling, reach out to a care provider for support. Taking care of yourself ensures you can better care for your loved one and enjoy the holiday season.
With thoughtful planning, communication, and a willingness to adapt, you can create meaningful holiday celebrations that include your loved one in care.
The season’s true spirit lies in the connections we foster and the love we share, regardless of the circumstances. Adapt to new circumstances with an open heart, recognizing that change is a part of life.